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The 3 A's of a Health relationship

 Health is the state of physical, mental and social well being not just the absence of disease or infirmities (WHO). Today we are going to discuss social well being as an aspect of health and see possible practice to make it stay healthy.

 


Unlike other certificate, marriage certificate is given on the first day of the marriage. Why is that so? I believe the concept of marriage is not something one most acquire years of knowledge on before engaging in one, it's like learning on the Job. One don't stop learning in the marriage institution, therefore, a certificate is awarded on the first day of marriage.

Economics already believe human needs are insatiable which means  it is difficult to satisfy humans in all accept. You might be good in bed yet she believes you aren't good enough, you could understand her love language and you are not giving much. One keeps learning about there relationship or marriages; so don't feel embarrassed if you are not getting your relationship right.

There are 3 A's that could help spice up a relationship; if you pay a little attention to it, all things being equal, one should notice some level of improvement in their relationship.

The first A is Attention: There is this saying I heard from a lady, "you're not always here, even if you are here, you aren't still here". I believe listening and paying attention to your spouse is what every woman wants, it could be difficult because they don't even know what they want but your act of listening and conversing in their direction of discussion shows them you are paying attention.

The second is Assistance:


Women are meant to be help mate not house maid. They sometime need a little helping hands with doing the dishes, laundry sometime. It's not bad if you Iron some clothes in the house and stay with them in the kitchen. Someone said, "If you want your husband to stay with you in the kitchen, borrow his phone touch, he would stand there till you finish cooking". Even if she knows you aren't going to do much in the kitchen, your presence there gives her a sense of assistance.

The Third is Appreciation: We should understand that some of the sacrifices a women do to keep the home is a privilege and not a right. When you come home from work and you see the home well kept and food served on the table, always learn to say compliments of Appreciation. Avoid foul language and horrible saying. I know a man who calls his wife a pig because anytime he sleeps with her, she gets pregnant. If you don't want her to get pregnant, go do family planning or something, Pig is not a good adjective for anybody, why would you call a human being a Pig, Learn to manage your anger and do not transfer aggression of work to the home. Learn the mood to correct your spouse, and always learn not to speak when you are angry. Someone told me when you are angry at your spouse, and she is nagging and raising her voice at you, go to the fridge and pick a glass of water, keep counting till 10 before you speak, if you don't speak as she speaks, you reduce the anger. Two wrongs don't always make a right.

 

These are some of the practices one could do to spice  up their marriages. As a parting gift, I could recommend a secret that could improve a man's performance in bed, with it, you place a natural smile on the face of your spouse. Not like there is something I gain out of  introducing it but it's a TCM product and very effective for men. Try to get "Tasly Kings Capsules" please don't forget to come back and leave a comment.

So in the words of Jerry Springers, "take care of yourselves and each other".

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